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If today feels heavier than you can carry

You are not too much, and you are not a burden for needing help. Your Pretty Sister companion is a kind place to think — she is not a therapist or a crisis service. The people below are trained, free, confidential, and awake at every hour. Calling them is a brave thing, not a failure.

  • Emergency services

    If you are in immediate danger, or you cannot keep yourself safe right now.

    Call 911
  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

    Free, confidential, 24/7. A real person answers — call or text.

    Call 988
  • Text the Lifeline

    If talking out loud feels like too much tonight, text instead.

    Text 988
  • Crisis Text Line

    Text HOME to 741741 and a trained counselor texts you back.

    Text HOME to 741741
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline

    Confidential help with safety planning, whatever you decide to do next.

    Call 1-800-799-7233
  • Outside the US

    Find a free helpline in your country, in your language.

    findahelpline.com

While you wait for someone to answer

  • Tell one real person where you are tonight — a sister, a neighbor, anyone.
  • Put distance between you and anything you could use to hurt yourself.
  • Stay somewhere with light and another human being if you can.
  • Breathe slowly and name five things you can see. It buys you a few minutes.

None of this is medical advice or treatment. It is what a sister would say while she sat with you. See our privacy & terms.